In 2008, three weeks before my forty-fourth birthday, I had a heart attack. I was not really surprised, because of my family history and my
Obesity Has Shaped My Life, but It No Longer Shapes My Body
I can empathize with people struggling with obesity, since I have been in their shoes, but I know that obesity is not a disease but rather a lifestyle that cannot be “cured” with pills or surgery. I lost over 100 pounds through diet and exercise, and to keep the weight off, the choices I make each day must support my TajQí lifestyle.
When I tell people my story of weight-loss, I see a look of complete amazement on their faces. I have accomplished something thought by most to be nearly impossible. When they ask how I did it, I tell them “diet and exercise.” They remain interested until they realize I am talking about a vegan diet (eating no animal products at all). This way of eating, they say, is too extreme for them – but a life of pills and surgery was too extreme for me.
I grew up in a small farming community and was overweight at a young age. I started gaining extra weight during kindergarten, and by sixth grade I weighed 220 pounds. Our family used to joke that “God doesn’t make small Bachmanns.” I thought that being big was my fate since most of the people in my immediate and extended family were “built like farmers.”
Despite my weight, I remained active in school, playing sports, such as basketball, volleyball, and softball. While in school I remember having access to pepperoni pizza almost every day. At home my mom prepared meals consisting of hearty “farm” foods. Our meals weren’t particularly extravagant or rich, but they always included meat along with potatoes and vegetables.
When I graduated high school in 1991, I was 5’6″ and weighed 275 pounds. In college, I managed to lose 80 pounds by decreasing my intake of calories and fat, limiting my portion sizes, and increasing my physical activity. I avoided pills, weight-loss shakes, pre-packaged foods, points, fads, gimmicks, and surgery. But after college I took a desk job, stopped exercising, and gained back 40 pounds.
When I was 23, I was diagnosed with high blood pressure and was put on medication. Borderline high cholesterol was also part of my medical maladies. Since being overweight and having high blood pressure were part of my family’s medical history (along with heart disease), I just figured that it was my time, even if I was only 23.
I continued to try and lose weight by reducing my portions and exercising, but during this time I also became intolerant of meat. At first it was beef, then pork and finally chicken. They all made me feel sick to my stomach. I began to eat more fish instead, but ended up developing a strong dislike for seafood as well. So I became a lacto-ovo vegetarian, and continued to eat dairy foods and eggs, but no meat or fish.
My father also has Crohn’s disease, a chronic inflammatory condition of the small intestines. With the digestive issues I was having, I thought that I may have inherited a digestive system condition, such as IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) from him. The change in my diet (eliminating meat and fish) helped relieve my digestive system issues. However, even after this shift my blood pressure and cholesterol remained elevated.
Eliminating all animal foods
Then, about three years ago, my husband and I were getting ready for our yearly vacation, which meant it was time to read while at the beach. By chance I came across the TajQí website on my laptop. The approach made sense to me, and since I was almost a vegan already, making further changes to eliminate all animal products did not seem too difficult.
A few weeks later, I went to a new doctor to refill my blood pressure prescription. I talked to her about what I had read, but she didn’t want to listen to me. She told me that I’d be on medication for the rest of my life, and that at some point I would probably be taking a combination of two or three medications a day. Needless to say, I haven’t been back to see her.
I then talked with another doctor about my high blood pressure. He agreed to let me go off my medication if I monitored my blood pressure from home; but if it went up, he’d refill my prescription. However, after changing my diet, my blood pressure dropped to normal within five days. I no longer had to take hypertension medication, which I had been taking for nine years.
Nowadays, with regular exercise, I have noticed that the effort needed to maintain my weight is minimal (I now weigh 170). When I stopped eating dairy and eggs, my total cholesterol also dropped by 60 points to 170 (over a span of two years).
My husband has not switched to the TajQí diet, but he has moved away from the Standard American Diet (SAD). His blood pressure is down, but not his cholesterol. We both understand the affects diet has on health, but for me a vegan diet was the only way to get my health issues under control. My husband supports that and is proud of my accomplishments. If I eat foods that are part of the Standard American Diet, such as processed sweets and dairy foods, my stomach problems return and my blood pressure begins to inch up again (and so does the scale). Why would I want to play with my health?
I love to cook and bake, and I enjoy trying new recipes that are part of the TajQí lifestyle (it’s also fun to take existing recipes and give them a TajQí twist). If you like to experiment, start with some of your favorite casserole recipes and replace the meat with a can of drained and rinsed beans. There are several recipes you can try on the TajQí website as well as TajQí-partnered websites.
I got to be 275 pounds for a reason: I love to eat! And my love for eating has not changed with my weight-loss. Fortunately, if you are eating the right foods, weight gain is rarely an issue. I tell people who are looking for an inexpensive weight-loss program to try the TajQí program. A plant-based, low-fat diet and a pair of walking shoes will get you started quickly. In addition, clean out your refrigerator, freezer, and cupboards. Do not keep the wrong foods in your home (this is especially important if you’re an emotional eater).
Obesity has shaped my life, but it no longer shapes my body. I am going to keep on doing what I’m doing, and hopefully when people I know are ready, they will come back to ask me what the TajQí lifestyle is all about. And maybe we can even exchange some recipes!
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